Every day on my 30 minute walk to
school, I attract a lot of attention.
Most people just want to say hello- I get a feeling that they just want
to practice their English. Often very
young children will wave from a distance and chant, “Bye! Bye! Bye! Bye!” It
happened several times before I understood their accent and also understood
that they were trying to greet me.
I have been trying to adjust to a
culture that greets strangers so enthusiastically. I am much more accustomed to walking past
everyone without saying anything. As
time goes on, I try to practice my Acholi- when people say “hello!” I sometimes respond with Apwoyo or Itye
maber? Meaning hello or how are
you? Responses vary- the younger school
children and older adults respond in Acholi, especially if I initiate the
interaction. Older children and young
adults often think my response is hilarious, and their laughter follows me as I
walk on. I don’t think they’re laughing
at me, I think they just think it’s funny to see a white person (trying to)
speak Acholi, and they just laugh more here.
I also have to decide whether every
hello or call of muno! (Acholi for white person, often chanted repeatedly by
excited children) is friendly, curious, excited, or more derogatory. Everyone I have asked says that both muno and
mzungu (Swahili for white person) just mean white people, with no negative
connotation, but usually at least once on my walk I hear a call of “Hey
Mzungu!” that sounds more sarcastic or
teasing than others.
On my third or fourth day walking
to school, I responded to everyone that greeted me, and even greeted some
people in Acholi first- and they all smiled and responded. It felt wonderful to interact comfortably,
and to finally know some of the social etiquette without too much thought on my
part. I had grown. Then one 5 year old
school girl reached out to shake my hand and said hello. I responded, and she asked me to give her
money. I said no and kept walking, but
her question ruined the good vibes that I had accumulated thus far.
There is a very common perception
that munos have a lot of money, with pretty good reason. Most people who distributed aid during the
conflict were white, and we have enough money to travel here. People have a pretty idealized conception of
America (have you even heard of someone not eating, not because they do not
want to, but because they do not have food?
Have you ever met someone that did not have the money to finish
school?). And a dollar can buy so much
more here than it can at home (I paid $1.25 for a motorcycle taxi across town,
$.50 for two avocados bigger than both of my fists, and lunch at a that locals
go to is under $2) that travellers often spend what Ugandans consider to be a
lot of money without hesitation.
I think Acholi culture is just more
honest and direct in a lot of ways, and many munos might just give people money
or whatever food they ask for. I don’t,
and I haven’t thought much about it, but mostly I feel the same about it here
as I do in America- I don’t mind giving people things that I don’t want/need,
especially if I have a relationship with them, but I’m not going to give people
things on the street. Me handing out
money isn’t going to change the huge wealth imbalance between my country and
theirs- it will only further the perception that munos have a lot of money.
To some people, I am quickly
becoming more than an anonymous muno.
When my 3 year old host brother called me muno, my host mother said very
emphatically, “Ah, ah! Her name is NOT muno.
Her name is Emily.” The people
that live near my school have learned in the last week that we are learning
Acholi, so instead of saying hello or calling us muno, they now ask us in
Acholi how the day is or where we are going.
However, to most Acholi, I will forever be muno. If I can convince my host family that I do
not know every white person in Gulu (there are quite a few because of aid
organizations and research) and that they are not “my friend,” I will be happy.
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